It’s no longer a rumour that Tiwa Savage and her hubby’s marriage have finally hit the rocks after many speculations. Tiwa herself came out in the open to pour her heart out for those who cared to listen, after her husband’s allegations of her infidelity and his suicidal attempt on Lekki – Ikoyi Bridge. Quite unfortunate that such a supposedly happy couple can be going through such misfortunes, when the family only just welcomed their gorgeous lil son, Jamal, into the world last year.
Where did it go wrong folk? Here is my take (and I would like your own contributions too) so that many couples going through this rather familiar situation can take a cue from Tiwa and her hubby’s mistakes:
Firstly, Tiwa knew from the genesis of their relationship that her hubby had many misgivings, but she ignored the traits and focused on the love she had for him. Was the love reciprocal though?
Secondly, she played the role of the man in the home; paying all the bills and even covering up for his excesses outside their marriage. Who is playing the fool?
Thirdly, she gave the world the impression that she had found the love of her life and spent a fortune on the marriage at home and away. Who is picking up the pieces after all the hullabaloo?
Finally, the evil women do certainly live with them too. Tee Billz was the first to spill the beans with his allegations against Tiwa, which prompted her to open up in her own defence.
My Question are – how much can you cover up your spouse’s delinquencies? How much do you have to take before you speak out?
These are questions for every man or woman going through such an ordeal. And believe me, it’s the quickest way to depression, which many people are living with in Nigeria today. Please let us keep this conversation going so that we can help ourselves my people!